Having a baby is probably one of the most life changing
experiences you can go through – everything changes, including your lifestyle,
attitude and priorities. These changes can be overwhelming, and advice can be
coming thick and fast from all directions – but don’t panic! Everything’s going
to be okay. Just follow our tips for surviving a newborn…
Don’t try to be a supermum / superdad
Trying to be perfect every second of every day is a futile
goal and is only going to result in stress and possible breakdown. Being
perfect simply isn’t possible, and setting realistic goals (like making it to
the end of the day) will be much more fruitful than being unrealistic and then
feeling like a failure.
Your baby is much less fussy than you are, and will love you
as long as you give it affection, food and safety. It doesn’t give two hoots
whether it’s wearing a spotless designer onezee or a stained pillowcase.
Don’t expect to be overwhelmed with love at first sight
This is a great cause of anxiety from new parents. Hollywood
has painted an unnatural picture of parenthood as being all flowers and
perfume, with mums and dads taking one look at the little screeching bundle
that pops out and falling instantly in love. But real life is not like that and
quite often the bond doesn’t immediately spring into existence. It takes time
for parents and child to build a loving relationship, so don’t panic or think
you’re doing something wrong is all you feel is exhausted and grumpy. It will
come.
Don’t forget about yourself
Newborns are demanding little nuggets and if you’re not
careful you can find one will swallow up every minute of every day. But
remember that you had a life before it turned up, hopefully with friends,
hobbies, that kind of thing. Some people think that giving up your life to tend
to your child is the greatest sign of dedication and commitment, but actually
it’s not healthy. Instead, having time to yourself and different (non-baby)
activities to stimulate your brain will make you more refreshed and
appreciative of your time with the little one.
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